Who are Club Kids

Club Kids

Current mood: energetic
Category: Parties and Nightlife

Club Kids are coming… Slowly infiltrating our club scene…!

Where did the Club Kids originate from?

The Club Kids were a group of young club goers led by Michael Alig and James St. James in the late 1980s and early 1990s This group was famous for their outrageous costumes and extensive drug use. At one point, they were on the payroll of several clubs for doing nothing but showing up with an entourage of Club Kids in order to draw more customers to the clubs. The 1998 documentary and the 2003 feature film, both called Party Monster, were based upon the memoir Disco Bloodbath by Club Kid James St. James, an autobiographical recount of his life and the Club Kids.

I am promoting the outrageous costumes, the colour and exuberance of the Club Kids to bring them into Clubs today as a extra dimension to events – Exactly the thing that draws people into a scene or event and creates that amazing WOW factor…

Connecting our country with the clubbing culture of the rest of the world! Weather it an event themed, colour co-ordinated, cyber, fetish, rainbow, gay, straight, commercial, rock and roll, or anything else you could possibly invent….

Club Kids can do it all.

If you as an event promoter, Dj, or band want Club Kids at your event please let me know… I can help organise to make an impact at your event, go-go or stage dancers and promo girls and guys.

I now have a Photo album solely dedicated to Club Kids at a range of different events in the last 12 months! Very hard to miss, extensively photographed, and fabulous.

Hope you enjoy!


Miss Phloss

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Life – Respect!!


Life – Respect

Respect. This one word runs true to be the most important in such a lifestyle that may seem to be a rollercoaster ride of mischief and mayhem. Weather it is giving people the respect they deserve or demanding respect for yourself and what you do from others.

It’s a two way street

Relationship Respect. Respect must be in relationships however strange and uncharted they might be. For example the dominatrix & slave, the straight male and the bi-sexual girl, and the promoter & talent or dj

Sometimes one has to temporarily burn bridges in situations that might compromise life, the level of respect or ones reputation and character… In the long run, if you earn the respect you’ll make out of it a stronger and more deeper friendship.

Professionalism and fun – One can get so lost in that world of the virtual, imaginary and ‘E-life’ that they are not capable of real personal interaction which brings them down the level of children getting all riled up on Instant Messaging fights. On the flip side people can get so caught up with ego, fame or an immature desire to popular and cool that they also loose focus of reality.

Regardless of the bad things life can throw you or the reactions of people who don’t understand what or why your doing something; stand tall and proud for who you are, believe in and what you live for and the world will recognise it and look up to you.

I am a Priestess, this is my lifestyle, this is my religion, and dance is my form of worship, photography is my art, my passion is to spread Colour, Love, Hope and a desire to Succeed.

I will stand tall on high heels for what I believe in.

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Fashion now…


Fashion now.. sex later…
Current mood: sleepy

So I’m in the middle of writing a blog about fashion. I left the other half at work!

Mainly its about how much I just laugh when people are so desperate to keep up with whats in their woman’s weeklies.  Celebrities in magazines have access to clothes right off the run way, obviously not everyone else does!!

So what’s the point? Its a bit like comparing our dial-up internet with world wide broadband speeds actually!

I say develop your own fashion style and if you get bored of it CHANGE it. I’m doing that all the time. Of course if we all had millions in the bank if would be an easy exercise but if you don’t, what’s to say it still can’t happen?!

I was watching Ugly Betty last night and the wardrobe mistress Christina (I love her attitude) said “Fashion can make you feel good or feel $10,000”  I’d rather feel $10,000 all the time!

I think its true, it doesn’t have to be a Gucci bag but it could be you’ve spoilt your self with something little, or something that is bright or DARING… Go on wear something a little dashing or or a bit brighter than normal, it can’t hurt!

My mum used to tell me that everyone has a colour.  Winter, Summer, Spring and Autumn…
I think an Autumn… I have pinky red hair at the moment… Maybe the colour of a red fallen oak leaf sharply contrasted against the earthy browns and greens below it.

I have to get some pictures soon.
So Autumn-y colours… If you find what suits you and you feel happy and comfortable in!
Feeling good in what you wear is important.
It is life-enhancing and, like everything that gives pleasure, it is worth doing well.
– Vivienne Westwood

But in saying that, make it your own!
I prefer to do something a little over the top, than half heartedly… It makes it more fun and who is going to remember you for being just the same as everyone else?

I don’t expect my kind of attitude is going work for everyone but if you explore a little enjoy and have fun!
Hugs and kisses..


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The Goal isn’t to live forever…

Life, self-discovery

The Goal isn’t to live forever…

We all die. The goal isn’t to live forever, the goal is to create something that will..

If someone was to write a book about you life would anyone want to read it?

Aways be the First Rate version of yourself, rather than being the Second Rate version of someone else..

wheresoever you go, go with all your heart – confucius

Imagination rules the world, let the universe speak to you.

Miss Candy Phloss

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Sexual Star Signs

tarot, Witchy

Current mood: bored
Category: Dreams and the Supernatural

How many times do you recieve an email like the one below and think “Wow that really sums me up” or “hmmm this doesn’t discribe me, maybe I’m doing something wrong!”

Regardless of what you think, Star Sign are one of those mysteries out there, passed down to us by ancients with their myths legents and tales. I believe there is truth in them, I believe each individual person has to find out what that truth is for them selves! You shouldn’t just believe something just becuase its been around for ages, or not believe it for the same reason.

Anyway read the below description of ypu star sign, be encouraged or have a chuckle!

Post what your sign is below! I am a Saggitarius.

.:VIRGO:. The Virgin

Dominant in relationships. Sexy. someone loves them right now. Freak in bed. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Intellectual. Attractive. Loud. Loyal Easy to talk to. Hard to forget Love at first sight. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. The one and only. Ultimate sexiness.

.:SCORPIO:. The sex addict

Can be mean. EXTREMELY sexy. Intelligent. Energetic. Predict future. Most erotic. (Freak in bed.) (GREAT kisser.) Always get what they want. Sexy. Attractive. Easy going Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. The sexiest ever….Romantic. Caring.

.:LIBRA:. The lame lover

Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone They meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique sexiness. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in Bed!!! Did I say Amazing in Bed? not the kind of person you wanna fuck with… u might end up crying… the most irresistible. 9 years of bad luck if you do not repost.

.:ARIES:. The Liar

Outgoing. Lovable. Spontanious. Not one to fuck with. Erotic. Funny. Take you on trips to the moon in bed. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY sexy. Loves being in long relationships=) Addictive. Loud. best in bed.

.:AQUARIUS:. Does it in the water

Trustworthy. Sexy. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being in long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out. Amazing in bed, THE BEST LOVERS BETTER THAN EVERYONE!

.:GEMINI:. Does Twosomes

Nice Love is one of a kind. Great listeners Very Good in bed. Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you the fuck out. Trustworthy. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. ULTRA SEXY. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE.

.:LEO:. The Lion in bed

Great talker. Sexy and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Is really good at. Great kisser. Unpredictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found.

.:CANCER: The Cutie

MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high sex appeal. Great in bed!!! Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak in bed. Spontaneous. Great telling stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to.

.:PISCES:. The Piece of ass

Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. Too Sexy, DAMN IT. Very high sex appeal. Has the last word. The best to find, hardest to keep. Fun to be around. Freak in the sheets. Extremely weird but in a good way. Super good in bed. Good Sense of Humor!!! Thoughtful. A partner for life. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet.

.:CAPRICORN The passionate Lover

Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Predict future. Irritable, awesome kisser. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. BY FAR the BEST in BED. Very sexy. Coolest. Caring and empathic. Loves to own Gemini’s in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Loves to be your first. So you’ll never forget.

.:TAURUS The Tramp

Aggressive. Freak in bed. Rare to find! Loves being in long relationships.=] Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Sexy as hell. Loves to help people in times of need. Outstanding kisser. Very funny. Awesome personality. Stubborn. Sexual as fuck. Most caring person you will ever meet! One of a kind. Not one to fuck with. Are the most sexiest people on earth!

.:SAGITTARIUS:. The Sexy one
Spontaneous. Freak in Bed. High sex appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. The one. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone They meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique sexiness. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in Bed..!!! Did I say Amazing in Bed? Not the kind of person you want to be with you might end up crying.

Smile – Life is good, the sun is shining here for you!



Miss Candy Phloss

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Massage, touch healing

things i love thursday

I have a diploma in sports and relaxation massage, and honestly its one of the best things I’ve ever done!

Massage, touch and healing…

Its amazing how much you can learn and feel about a person from just touching them.
Too many people now days are hung up on the ultra PC personal space and sexullity of touch.

Touch doesn’t have to be sexual. There’s relaxation, de-stressing, peace, comfort and friendship; there’s anger, tension, pain, sadness and stress.

Every monday night I have my massage table up and a between 1 and 3 different people over for a massage. Some are stressed, some have been working out at the gym, some just need a moment of me time to relax!

The difference you feel after some deep tissue work, getting rid of the horrible toxins stored up in cramped muscles! Taking something thats so tight and making it pliable and soft is great! Seeing someone’s shoulders drop a good two inches!

It truly is rewarding to be able help people in such a simple way! As a kinstetic person its great to do something with my hands as well as my Brain!

Oh and if your in Auckland, let me know if you want one
And if you’re feeling stressed or tried, getting headaches – I RECOMMEND it.
I have asian massages, I find they know what they are doing and focus more on pressure points which I find releases the tension more effectively. God I need one right now!

Love ya HEAPS all!!

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Kissing Girls


One of the delightful pleasures of forplay and (for me)bi-sexuallity.

I’ve met few men that can kiss better than a girl, and I’ve only kissed a couple of girls that didn’t make me tingle completely from head to toe!

Kissing is an art and not all kisses are created equal…

The tender, gentle “I love you” kiss
The “You taste devine, savour the moment” french kiss
The strong “I want you” kiss
The slow “sending shivers down my spine” kiss
The gentle “my special thing” peck on the cheek

I could go on forever!!!

The secret to great kissing is variety. Sometimes you’re gentle,
sometimes you’re rough. Ouch! Tease your partner with a little bite on
the lips — as if you can’t control yourself and want to eat them up.

French kissing involves tongue contact, and there’s really no right or wrong way to do it. But there certainly are plenty of preferences! The secret to great french kissing is responsiveness. Sometimes you lead, sometimes you let your partner lead.
Don’t just use your tongue like a dart!

Virtually everyone remembers their first French kiss. It was a great experience for some and more like a tongue-war for others. But since then, we’ve all learned that French kissing is a very personal and sensual experience.

Since women’s lips are their number one erogenous zone, it’s very important for men to leave a lasting, eroticized impression with women. Remember that if you French kiss her like no other, you’ll probably get to kiss something else soon afterwards…

Positioning your hands on her body while kissing her is especially important too. Holding her face firmly but gently while you slip your tongue inside her mouth and suck on her lips will definitely make her toes curl.
As well, pulling her hair back from the back roots or slightly squeezing the part of her body that is located right under her breasts (her ribs) could make for some very tantalizing kissing sessions.


Kissing your partner is probably one of the most important parts of lovemaking altogether.
Since people often give out what they would like to receive, pay attention to the way she kisses you — that’s probably the way she wants you to kiss her. Does she bite on your lips or try to gently suck all the saliva off your tongue? Well there’s nothing in the world like the gift of reciprocity!

Don’t be shy, you’re not confined to kissing just her lips… there’s a whole face and body to explore. Why not French kiss her chin, her neck and her breasts? Or kiss her eyes, the spot behind her ears or her wrists.

Remember that everything starts with a kiss….

Kissing facts:
According to recent research conducted by a German psychologist, most people (66 percent) turn their head to the right when kissing so that the noses don’t bump.

Bad breath — use gum to keep your mouth sweet.
Boring kisses — vary the intensity, the tempo, the duration.
Silence — every now and then say something sweet.
Too much tongue — don’t suffocate your partner.
Rigor Mortis — keep your hands caressing your lover.

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Big Day Out 2007


As a big day out Virgin, I had high expetations going into it and I was very impressed to say that I was not dissapointed!

I had a Crazy time! I’m my usual getup, this time with some fabulous pink getups part of it courtesy of MsBehaviour set out with a a crazy bunck of people, Flick, Justin Sane , Tania M , David James , and Gabby Oh and a gorgeous little token Emo, haha. I definately recommend going to big gigs in Groups!

First up was the Lily Allen Signing tent, – so glad we got there early, as it did get a little like sardines at one point, rather like a mosh-pit with out the jumping up and down! YAY I’ll post up a copy of our poster we got signed once I get it scanned!
Lily Allen is cute, very glam rock, like a classy version of Trashy Life actually and I definately recommend getting her album, quite funky music to bob along to!

Media behind the singing table was rather amusing, most of them looking at me like a was a crazy who escaped from a pink sheep factory!

Trying to leave that area I was pounced on by Nz local TV 3 Camera crew and spot interviewed, which I thought was a compliment concidering, but I don’t expect it to be aired, and to the best of my knowledge it hasn’t been yet. Thats commercial TV for ya tho. haha.

To be honest I was suprised at the small number of Emo’s there were there.. I expected to heaps of them swarming around in their “I’ve got to cut myself” circles – there were a whole lot more “REAL” goths instead, (which wasn’t that surprising with the lineup).

On the fashion side of things, before I move on to the music (of course), it was a really good effort for Auckland. As a generally fashion concervative city I think the influx of a larger number of people from through out the rest of the country helped up the colours and the quality!

All pretty good, and everyone was allowed to express their own style without being really all that judged for it! I fully expected to get allot more crap for the pink than I did! I think it more turist attraction appeal.

The above I refrain to to comment. *rolls eyes*

Back on the music, we moved to see Goodnight Nurse. The main arena was filling up slowly, alot of the other stages had either smaller internationals or local acts on.
It was cool, baked a little in the sun, and bounced a little as much as I could subtly do to rock music with out looking like any more of raver out of place.

At this point I had found a flyer that caught my interest – the Durex “Kiss Off competition… Kiss Off I think I managed to get just under 50 Photos, so not too bad, but not as good as I’d hoped. I’ll just have to wait as the compeition closes tomorrow, but I don’t think i’ve won as like most stupid publicity competitions its all based on “Who got the most”. I can guarantee mine were the most intersting and were the most REAL kisses too haha. (Which was all good except the bearded old man in a kilt!!!) ((oops))

From there we headed to the Boiler tent, and hung around and relaxed over lunch time. We didn’t bother getting a bite to eat till a little later as q-ing for an hour wasn’t that appealing! I’m so glad we had sunscreen or like all the other numb-nuts out there we would have been fried and passed out with heat exhuastion and sunstoke. Seriously not cool!

The Killers!
Deciding not to get trampled we headed to the very top of the stands to watch and cool off! It was amazing, the view and the energy from the crowd! Here are some pic’s!

Looks like ANTS!!

Lilly Allen was awesome, enjoyed bopping along! (thank gawd for the earplugs tho- I bought ear plugs for the boiler room, and I’m SO glad I did and I’ll prolly wear them again or keep them handy at least. I’d hate to loose my hearing and you don’t realise the difference from wearing them till afterwards and your hears arn’t ringing! $1 from St John’s FTW!!)
I loved when she kicked the beachball that hit her telling people they weren’t supposed to hit her with then yelling “C**T” as she kicked it back out!

The Streets were fantastic with his crowd interaction too: “when I say now, you all get low, yeah?” – and 30-odd thousand people all crouch down in the boiler room, they on the count of 5 everyone jumped up and when absolutely BANANAS!!

Prolly not something new but awesome neverthe less!

We ended up hanging around outside for the rest of the night and heading off earlish to beat the mad rush out of the stadium.
All in all an AWESOME weekend, GREAT Big Day Out, and I’d defiantely do another one

Highlights: Interview with TV3, Interview with ALT Tv and Photos for and Sunday Star Times!


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The Last month or two!


Well I think my 2006 ended FABULOUSLY!!

Lots of partying!!
Christmas – Auckland bar called Kiss hold a Gig specifically to raise donations for our City mission charity. Some of us went out about a whole haps of toys for the kids who wouldn’t get a christmas! People were bringing food, HUGE teddy bears, unwated clothing seriously there was SOOO much stuff it was crazy!
We did our bit then got boozed and enjoyed the free entertainment we had earned with our good deeds!

I had a lovely christmas ASS!!

After christmas we all chilled out and enjoyed doing not much for a while to get ready and save our few pennies for New Years Eve! I spent most of my time just doing nothing which was GREAT, the weather was lovely and I got to wear what ever I wanted the whole time!!

New years eve, Flick me JustinSane Tania M and Niddies all did the marathon. Three gigs in one night… started at about 10pm at Studio for GateCrasher, which was awesome!!
Then from there went to Kiss Bar for their Genesis 07 gig. The music was a touch harder, but still great for bouncing around too.
We took Flick’s younger sister into town for her first RAVE gig, it was hillarious. There is nothing funnier than seeing a chick who normally listens to Rock and Hip Hop head banging to Hard Dance / Hardstyle!!

We met up with Phunkin Phuturistic there too… she’s the best… in all her almost naked glory!! I was guttend I missed out on a whole lot more nakedness later on in the night! Most of the time I’m the one involved in the nakedness so for me to miss THAT was like so sad!

Then about 2pm we all bundled up into cars, including some tag allong turists (hillarious – pitty in comparison to the UK our scene is so small) and headed about an hour out of the main city to an out door dance party, IN THE MIDDLE OF FREAKING NO WHERE!!

It was pretty cool tho, lots of people all over the place in varying states of disarray – We got there about 3am. We went down to the “dance floor” and had a boogie for a while and only managed to get a little bit of sleep before getting up and keeping on going in the morning!
It was very differnt, we did get a little bit of a down pour but we all kept bouncing around under the roof. The lasers and lights made lots of little rainbows of the raindrops, it was really pretty altho rather damp!!!

Next post will be Summerdayz! but later I’m zzzzzzz

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“I’m uncomfortable talking to a standing woman”

queer, Writing

Half the world has won the fight to being open about Sexuallity.

The rest of the world is deemed to be Sexist by the rest of the world.

Why is it right for us in our culture, why is it right for them in there culture?

-Men and women have fought for the right to be able to have a same sex relationship
and not be discriminated against and to have the same civil rights as a opposite sex
-It the right to choose.

-It stems from alot of cultures – Asian, Christian, Muslim, Hindu, African
-Covering of the body
-The right to speak out
-Financial worth
-Political inequallity

This week I had a situation presented to me:

I went to ask a question of someone in a different department at work; a really simple 1 min one. The gentleman happened to be of indian decent, and said to me.

“Please sit down, I’m uncomfortable talking to a standing woman.”

I respect your culture, but its not like your sitting on the floor and I’m talking down to you. Which way would you take this and what would you do?

I asked this question to a large group of people to see what the general consensus was. Most of these people are between the ages 18 – 40 mostly European.

Did you ask him to take his turbin off?” Male
Dude thats ridiculous he probably just wanted to try perve down your top… I hate to be racist but it does seem Indian men are pretty dirty generally.Male
Were you taller than him. Maybe is eye level was at you breast level and he was finding it hard to concentrate.Male
Just tell him he is now living in a country where that shit dont apply. If he wants to continue with that then go back to where you came from. This is a free country!!Male
Considering he is living in a free country, he is entitled to ask you anything he likes, just as you are entitled to refuse.Male
Bloody PC bullshit, next women will require consent for sexy time..Male
I dont think he looked down on her as such.. its a cultural thing we just dont understand it because were not part of that culture. At least he said please and let her know why he wanted her to sit down (because it made him uncomfortable). Imagine being in a situation that made you feel uncomfortable – would you ask the other person to do something that could make the situation better? especially as it was as simple as sitting down?Female
Yes… and it is part of their culture that women are inferior to men. Does this make their culture acceptable? No.Male
I can understand it, I just dont agree with applying it to a work enviroment.
If he had said “im not comfortable speaking with a standing person” it would probably be abit more understood, at least by me it would, but she is singled out.
It’s a cultural thing to stone women to death if they have been raped or slept with a man before marriage in some cultures (I use this statement loosely), but that doesn’t make it right. So to be honest I think regardless, as Feminist so it’s her political and personel right to refuse to sit down. Just as it was his right to ask her to sit down for his own personal cultural beliefs. Personally knowing Phloss Id say it would be a big deal for her to sit down because it’s not the action really of sitting down now is it? It’s the principal and your own convictions that you would be sacrificing.Female
this is our country he moved to for a better life. Respect our culture first. Dont move here and try to turn it back into whence he came.Male
I dont condone anything do do with demoralising women (obviously) and if someone asked me to sit down beacuse they wouldnt speak to me otherwise id be offended too
this guys deifnatley going to have to get used to the way things work in our country though Yes next time he says something a woman deems sexist he might get a lot more than the wrath of phloss
Just refuse… and if he makes a big deal out of it THEN report him to HR etc etc…
I tend to ask people to sit down when they come in my studio to talk too… just not in that manner…
Considering that he said “standing Women” you have a right to be pissed. It would it have been different if he said can you please sit down as I am uncomfortable standing and talking.Male
Out of sheer politeness I might have made a compromise in a similiar situation, but it depends on how he asked it. If I chose to sit as requested for the sake of argument, when talking to him, would have conversed in such a way as to convey myself as an equal. Bold eye contact and all of that. At the end of the day, some things aren’t worth making a song and dance about. I guess if it means so much to him that he isn’t “talked down to” by a woman , then making that compromise would be the easiest way to mediate the situation. You know that you aren’t doing it for any reason other than avoiding friction, so don’t let it bother you. Male

I think the general consensus has turned out to be from our point of view:

It’s their culture, but at the same time, if you come to our country you abide by our standards just as we would be expected too if we went over there. But depending on the situation I still am in a quandy as to weather it is any better to do or say something about it or to let it go.

From the other side if I was looking at it from the other side of the looking glass I can also see how they also would be putting their beliefs and culture either asside or sticking to it. How often do we when we enter a country respect and conform to that country’s ethical standards unless it is perilous to our lives if we do not.

Everything is not static, there is not a true measure of the accepted and not accepted globally.
If this were to be the case would it make the world more peaceful?
(I doubt it would.)

Why do we feel threatned when we are not treated equally? No human is equal to another in the experiences we have had and the things are believe.
We are all what we make ourselves to be. We are how ever all equal when stripped down to bare matter. Because one person CHOSES to take himself further, educate his brain, to be different, to be sexaully open, or to be sexualy prudish…

Its what Choices in life that make us different, that make life exciting, that make people want to continue living an exciting adventure!

Sexism is a mind set, Sexuallity is a mind set; both are choices we choose to make on our journey that make us who we are.

I’m gonna continue to research this subjects as I think and post about it. Look out for me.

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